THE FOURTH HOUSE
Dinner Party
A table for those who are unfinished, unseen, yet still deeply worthy.
An invitation
to take a seat
at the
table ...
There are people who move through the world carrying a lot — often quietly.They are the ones others rely on.The ones who hold things together.
The ones who listen, show up, and make room for everyone else.But because are seen as strong, they are rarely checked.Never offered empathy or support.
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The Fourth House Dinner Party exists for those people.
What This Is
The FOURTH HOUSE Dinner Party is a small, intentional gathering. It's cozy not glamorous. We share a family-style meal at the table, with curated, era-specific music playing in the background through the night. There is time. There is space.
Throughout the evening, we move through a conversational card game designed to invite reflection and self-seeing. The questions touch on how things like shame, guilt, family, self-betrayal, and love show up in our lives. The questions are mirrors—offering moments to reflect, to hear yourself speak your truth outloud, or simply to listen to others. You share only what feels comfortable.
Nothing is required.
This is a night of sitting together, eating together, vibing, and witnessing one another—without trying to solve, diagnose, or improve anything.
Who This Is For
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This night is especially for people who have rarely been given permission to fully be themselves. People who learned to minimize, translate, or edit who they are in order to belong. People who are often perceived as capable or strong, and therefore not offered care in return.
It is for those who are tired of holding space while never being held themselves. Those longing to be seen fully — even briefly — by others who understand what that means.
While the table is open to all, the intention is to prioritize those who are most often asked to carry without support.
*This space centers the voices and lived experiences of MELANATED and MARGINALIZED people. ​
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What to Expect
During the evening, you can expect:
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A shared, family-style meal
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A intimate group size
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Curated music that supports a warm, nostalgic atmosphere
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A conversational card game designed for depth and self-reflection
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Time to speak, listen, observe, or journal — all options are welcome
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The evening is gently guided. You are always in choice about how you participate.
You may step away, sit quietly, or leave early if needed. There is no expectation to perform, disclose, or engage beyond what feels right for you.
What This Is Not
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This is not a workshop
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This is not a networking event
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This is not group therapy
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This is not about fixing or healing​
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This evening there are no outcomes, nothing to fix.
Accessibility & Care
Care is built into the structure of the evening.
We move at a human pace.
Participation is optional, fluid, and self-directed.
Quiet observation is as welcome as conversation.
Accessibility is also central to how this gathering is offered.
The intention of The Fourth House Dinner Party is to make space for people who are often under-supported to experience care, connection, and be fully seen.
I believe that meaningful connection should not be reserved only for those with the most resources.
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Financial Commitment & Access​
The financial commitment for this dinner is $333 per person.
This supports the cost of food, preparation, the space itself, and the labor of hosting and holding the evening.
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The following payment options are available:
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Pay a one time payment of $333
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Three scholarship seats per dinner offered at $222
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Payment plans
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Scholarship seats are reserved for participants with genuine financial need.
They are not intended as a discounted option, but as a means of access.
When considering a scholarship seat, I ask that you reflect on whether the absence of this support would truly prevent you from attending.
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No proof is required. Discernment and honesty are trusted.
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If you have access needs, financial questions, or concerns you’d like to discuss, please do not hesitate to share them during the inquiry process.
​ The Process is simple:
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Submit an inquiry form
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Schedule a brief virtual conversation
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Receive a personal invitation if it is mutually ALIGNED.
​This allows the dinner to remain intentional, relational, and grounded in care — for you, the group, and the space itself.
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​*Because of the intimate nature of this gathering, attendance is by invitation only.
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